Now that I have an infant I notice I have less and less time to myself, and a lot less time to stroll around and shop. It was inevitable, and I knew what I was getting into, but it still sometimes puts a damper on my fashion choices. One way to make shopping easy is to shop online, but I am still not sure how I feel about it? Yes it’s easy, and the stuff comes straight to your front door. But there also are some down sides such as shipping costs, and sizing troubles. So what do you think? Online shopping? Is it a Yay..or a Nay?
Up until now I haven’t really seen the benefits. Most of the time you are left to pay shipping, which I find to be an unnecessary added cost. Sometimes the cost is rather hefty! That is usually the point where I rethink my purchase. I search for items, add them to my cart, and when I am ready to check out I notice the shipping charges and cancel my order. I pretty much do it every time. I should learn by now to not even search unless I have a free coupon code!
How about sizing? I normally have to try on a ton of clothes in the dressing room before I find anything that fits. Especially when it comes to pants or Jeans. How does one buy that stuff online? Shoes? I feel like I need to put them on my feet before buying. Yes, a lot of shoe websites offer free return shipping, but that takes time, and I normally want my shoes right away. I am extremely scared of the online shoe ordering trend.
Even after all the things that scare about online shopping I still tend to browse regularly. I mean take this Knitwear by Pure Collection (yes, I used the word knitwear!)….doesn’t it just look cozy? My biggest guilty shopping pleasure is stuff that I can’t afford on those discount designer sites. Even at the discount things are too much for me, but it’s fun to look!
I do see the benefits, such as saving yourself a lot of time that you don’t have in a store. But how do people not see the negatives? How do you get around the negatives I’ve mentioned? What do you think? Are you an online shopper? Or are you like me, and still find it rather scary….
For where we live it takes about 30 to 40 mins to get to simple places to shop. A small mall/ target and a few department stores. I really nice mall….well 45-50 mins. So I equate the shipping costs with GAS, time and possible headache of shopping with a 6 month old (you never know…somedays are perfect…other days, u just never know).
I try to only order from places in the 30 to 40 min range. So if I have to return them, I can simply drive down and return. But if I don’t then is success. I typically only order from places where I am familar with their clothes, fitting etc.
I will say, it’s taken sometime to figure out what is worth ordering (risk of returning) and what is not. I only buy jeans from one store online, that I have bought them and tried them on in person before. I don’t buy tops that I am not sure about the fabric.
I save sale coupons from my favorite stores and watching for email alerts to free shipping deals. Also, several places if you spend more than $100 (sometimes easy) then you get free shipping. So that is when I take my risks on things I’m not super sure if I will love or hate. Then it’s nothing but a half hour drive and a easy return in person. WORST case.
Good luck. Once you get in your online shopping grove….you will learn to like it a bit more.
Amazon gives free shipping when you sign up for amazon mom. Eevery time you buy something you extend your free shipping. Anyway. For non clothes related things. Got 1000 wipes today for $30 bucks. No shipping. Delivered to my front door.
I have to say that I HATE shopping, I hate the crowds and the dirty messy people make with the clothes. I’ve had too many experiences with buying clothes from the store, to bring them home and notice a smudge or a tear or something far grosser I won’t post here.
I like to order from stores I can access for easy returns or stores that have a free shipping return policy. I only shop through ebates so I get money back and coupon codes. If I’m not gett 20% off they’re not getting my money.
The plus side, I have more selection to choose from online, shipping is generally quick and the clothes are NEW haven’t been tried on before or tramped on after they’ve fallen on the floor.
you know I never thought about the “dirty” clothes, and how clothes bought online were never worn by anyone…interesting thought! And you are right about selection and size…good arguments in the pro column for online shopping! ?
I could see where distance can be an issue for some. We have sooo many stores close by…but I too do the amazon mom thing! I love getting my diapers and wipes delivered…that’s where online shopping is AMAZING!