Comments on: Our Loss http://afterthealter.com/our-loss/ My Life as a Mrs. Sun, 14 Mar 2010 02:26:44 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Melody (MrsMeloyellow) http://afterthealter.com/our-loss/comment-page-1/#comment-4930 Melody (MrsMeloyellow) Fri, 12 Mar 2010 04:53:19 +0000 http://afterthealter.com/?p=1231#comment-4930 I totally share your sentiments. I am hurting and this is a difficult time...but I don't regret telling the people I consider the closest in my life(ok and maybe like 4 customers and the ups guy) because you know what...I DID lose a baby...but just because I lost it doesn't mean it never existed. I WAS pregnant, and we DID make a baby...and I feel that that baby deserved acknowledgment for the blessing in our life that it was. I've learned a few things from this experience. The first thing I've learned from this...is that if my Husband and I can get through this stronger...as I believe we have, then we can get through anything. The second thing I've learned is that I've already lost one of the most important things to me...so what exactly do I have to be afraid of in my life? I have no reason to be scared to do anything anymore. I'm gonna try again...because whats the worst that can happen? I've already experienced it! and last...I've learned Patience. no matter how much you worry, prepare & plan...The world goes according to a plan way different than the one I'm writing...so take a deep breath, exhale...and just be willing to accept your fate. "Man Plans, God decides" I totally share your sentiments. I am hurting and this is a difficult time…but I don’t regret telling the people I consider the closest in my life(ok and maybe like 4 customers and the ups guy) because you know what…I DID lose a baby…but just because I lost it doesn’t mean it never existed. I WAS pregnant, and we DID make a baby…and I feel that that baby deserved acknowledgment for the blessing in our life that it was.

I’ve learned a few things from this experience.

The first thing I’ve learned from this…is that if my Husband and I can get through this stronger…as I believe we have, then we can get through anything.

The second thing I’ve learned is that I’ve already lost one of the most important things to me…so what exactly do I have to be afraid of in my life? I have no reason to be scared to do anything anymore. I’m gonna try again…because whats the worst that can happen? I’ve already experienced it!

and last…I’ve learned Patience. no matter how much you worry, prepare & plan…The world goes according to a plan way different than the one I’m writing…so take a deep breath, exhale…and just be willing to accept your fate. “Man Plans, God decides”

]]> By: It’s Prenatal Time!: A Fertileaid Giveaway! | After the Alter http://afterthealter.com/our-loss/comment-page-1/#comment-3510 It’s Prenatal Time!: A Fertileaid Giveaway! | After the Alter Tue, 23 Feb 2010 03:05:44 +0000 http://afterthealter.com/?p=1231#comment-3510 [...] on me and my blog. One main theme that my blog focuses on is my journey of Trying to conceive post miscarriage. Through out this journey I have connected with so many wonderful people, and these people have [...] [...] on me and my blog. One main theme that my blog focuses on is my journey of Trying to conceive post miscarriage. Through out this journey I have connected with so many wonderful people, and these people have [...]

]]> By: After the Alter » Blog Archive » Blog Love http://afterthealter.com/our-loss/comment-page-1/#comment-1206 After the Alter » Blog Archive » Blog Love Mon, 02 Nov 2009 14:10:11 +0000 http://afterthealter.com/?p=1231#comment-1206 [...] to what I have to say, as well as the ones where someone disagrees with me. When I blogged about Our Loss I was truly touched when  people e mailed me to reach out and talk about their own personal [...] [...] to what I have to say, as well as the ones where someone disagrees with me. When I blogged about Our Loss I was truly touched when  people e mailed me to reach out and talk about their own personal [...]

]]> By: After the Alter » Blog Archive » Continuing the Journey http://afterthealter.com/our-loss/comment-page-1/#comment-1194 After the Alter » Blog Archive » Continuing the Journey Tue, 27 Oct 2009 12:58:06 +0000 http://afterthealter.com/?p=1231#comment-1194 [...] past summer I chose to share about my miscarriage and Our Loss. It was a horrible time in my life, and although I am moving on, there are some things that just [...] [...] past summer I chose to share about my miscarriage and Our Loss. It was a horrible time in my life, and although I am moving on, there are some things that just [...]

]]> By: Kristen http://afterthealter.com/our-loss/comment-page-1/#comment-1090 Kristen Thu, 01 Oct 2009 13:30:55 +0000 http://afterthealter.com/?p=1231#comment-1090 Your story is so similiar to mine in every way. It's like I'm reading my story. I am only 20, my husband and I were hoping we could have children in like 4 years, so we are still hoping we can have children around that time. Are you going to try again soon? I know you said you were shocked, so were you trying before? .-= Kristen´s last blog ..<a href="http://pkae1989.blogspot.com/2009/10/hi-my-name-is-pk-and-im-googleholic.html" rel="nofollow">Hi, my name is PK and I'm a googleholic.</a> =-. Your story is so similiar to mine in every way. It’s like I’m reading my story.

I am only 20, my husband and I were hoping we could have children in like 4 years, so we are still hoping we can have children around that time.

Are you going to try again soon? I know you said you were shocked, so were you trying before?
Kristen´s last blog ..Hi, my name is PK and I’m a googleholic. My ComLuv Profile

]]> By: After the Alter » Blog Archive » They Say Everything Happens For A Reason Right? http://afterthealter.com/our-loss/comment-page-1/#comment-942 After the Alter » Blog Archive » They Say Everything Happens For A Reason Right? Fri, 14 Aug 2009 21:42:43 +0000 http://afterthealter.com/?p=1231#comment-942 [...] know I have shared the story of Our Loss and the story of my miscarraige openly, but I feel like I haven’t shared much beyond that. [...] [...] know I have shared the story of Our Loss and the story of my miscarraige openly, but I feel like I haven’t shared much beyond that. [...]

]]> By: Melisa "Puffs" Esposito http://afterthealter.com/our-loss/comment-page-1/#comment-897 Melisa "Puffs" Esposito Tue, 04 Aug 2009 00:33:07 +0000 http://afterthealter.com/?p=1231#comment-897 Jen- I'm so sorry for your loss. I admire your strength and courage that allowed you to share your experience. For myself, talking out the difficult situations in life leads me to acceptance. You are in my prayers. Jen- I’m so sorry for your loss. I admire your strength and courage that allowed you to share your experience. For myself, talking out the difficult situations in life leads me to acceptance. You are in my prayers.

]]> By: MoDLin http://afterthealter.com/our-loss/comment-page-1/#comment-687 MoDLin Fri, 17 Jul 2009 18:27:24 +0000 http://afterthealter.com/?p=1231#comment-687 Jen, I'm so sorry for your loss. A loss at any time is very hard. Please know that so many people are thinking of you and your husband and wishing you peace during this tough time. The March of Dimes has created a Bereavement Kit for families who have suffered a loss. It contains fact sheets on reasons for loss, including blighted ovum, and booklets that deal with the issues From Hurt to Healing; What Do You Say?; When You're Ready to Try Again; and Resources. You can read about it at this link: http://www.marchofdimes.com/pnhec/572.asp . If you or a family member would like to have one of these helpful and free kits, please send an email requesting it to the following address: bkit@marchofdimes.com. Jen, I’m so sorry for your loss. A loss at any time is very hard. Please know that so many people are thinking of you and your husband and wishing you peace during this tough time.

The March of Dimes has created a Bereavement Kit for families who have suffered a loss. It contains fact sheets on reasons for loss, including blighted ovum, and booklets that deal with the issues From Hurt to Healing; What Do You Say?; When You’re Ready to Try Again; and Resources. You can read about it at this link: http://www.marchofdimes.com/pnhec/572.asp . If you or a family member would like to have one of these helpful and free kits, please send an email requesting it to the following address: bkit@marchofdimes.com.

]]> By: After the Alter » Blog Archive » Our Loss…It’s Over… http://afterthealter.com/our-loss/comment-page-1/#comment-680 After the Alter » Blog Archive » Our Loss…It’s Over… Fri, 17 Jul 2009 12:59:40 +0000 http://afterthealter.com/?p=1231#comment-680 [...] you’ve read in my previous post about the loss of our pregnancy, things have been pretty sad in our household this past week. I [...] [...] you’ve read in my previous post about the loss of our pregnancy, things have been pretty sad in our household this past week. I [...]

]]> By: Summer http://afterthealter.com/our-loss/comment-page-1/#comment-672 Summer Thu, 16 Jul 2009 01:40:18 +0000 http://afterthealter.com/?p=1231#comment-672 Thanks for stopping by my blog today. I'm so very sorry for your loss. Thanks for stopping by my blog today.

I’m so very sorry for your loss.

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