The Marriage Ref

Sunday night I was flipping through the channels and happened upon the new NBC show “The Marriage Ref“ , which is produced by Jerry Seinfeld. I saw previews, but wasn’t too sure, but I gotta tell you that what I saw of this show is HYSTERICAL!! Picture funny celebrity panelists listening to couples state their arguments about random marital fights. What type of random arguments you ask? Well let me paint a picture for you with two words….Stripper Pole!!!

Do I have your attention yet? Yup, one of the arguments that had to be resolved on the first episode was whether or not the wife should give in to the husbands desire to have a stripper pole in the bedroom. How funny is that? Another topic was this husband had his little dog stuffed when it died, and it is in his house. His wife finds it freaky…should he be allowed to keep it? Basically they plan on covering comical arguments that a husband and wife have. That’s why I found it so funny, because I really could see myself, or other couples I know having ridiculous arguments such as these. Arguments which definitely could use a Marriage Ref.

 I have always found relationship and marriage comedy really funny in a “it’s funny cause it’s true” type of way. That’s what I think I’m going to like about this show. Kind of like Seinfeld brought you the show about nothing, but in reality sounded like conversations I have had with my friends regularly. The Marriage Ref seems to bring out funny everyday situations about couples. I mean who doesn’t fight about wet towels being left on the bed?

Jerry Seinfeld was on Oprah this week and shared his new marriage “lingo terms”. I found these so funny because I find myself doing this things!

Kitchen Sinking It

“Kitchen sinking is when you’re in an argument about one issue and your partner—your sparring partner, in this case—starts throwing everything in from every fight you ever had,” Tom says. “You’re fighting about something the dog’s doing, and they bring up an old girlfriend from the ’70s.”

This is true! I always tell The Captain that he better be careful because I remember everything, and he never knows when it will come back to haunt him!

“At Least I’m Not the Most Horrible Thing You Can Think of” Defense

“I love this one,” Tom says. “This is where you get into an argument, and you take them to the limit. … [If she says], ‘You should be here with us all the time,’ or ‘You should be having breakfast with us.’ [And he responds], ‘Well, at least I’m not going to the bar and sleeping with strippers.’ Wait, what?”

This one makes me laugh because I feel like we all try to point out someone or something much WORSE than what we are getting yelled at for. At least pointing that out makes us feel better about ourselves!

The Marriage Ref is going to be on NBC on Thursday nights at 10:00. And the fun part is it’s starting tonight! See, funny marriage arguments like these would really make for a funny installment of “Story  to tell Saturday“. Doesn’t everyone like to hear about other couples arguments? It always makes me feel much more normal!

 

 

30 Responses to The Marriage Ref
  1. Sarah Nicole
    March 3, 2010 | 10:59 pm

    I’ve been meaning to watch this show. It looks really funny. I love the “At Least I’m not the worst thing you can think of” defense. I think I’ve used it. haha.

    Stopping by from SITS.

    • Jen
      March 4, 2010 | 10:41 am

      I totally use this one too! lol But so does The Captain so I guess we’re even!

  2. Heather
    March 4, 2010 | 12:11 am

    I am so excited to watch this show. I keep seeing the previews and DH and I keep saying we have to at least watch one episode together and see what we think. Thanks for the laughs. :)

  3. Louise
    March 4, 2010 | 9:08 am

    Hi – what a great post! I recall an old friend saying that one of her old friends filed for divorce from her longtime husband citing mental cruelty. Of what did this mental cruelty consist? He would cut his toe and finger nails and pile them up on a china plate in the wardrobe. Then when the pile was big enough to make a good sized portion he sat down and ate them… Greetings from Italy — Louise.

    • Jen
      March 4, 2010 | 10:41 am

      Wow that is really really gross!!! lol Hello to Italy! I want to go back there :) Thanks for stopping by!

  4. Barbara
    March 4, 2010 | 9:34 am

    I saw the premiere too and I liked it, I thought it was very funny. Amazing how they got these HUGE celebrities to come on too, the Madonnna preview looks very funny! It very “everyday real” kinda like Seinfeld was, the guy just can’t not be funny really.

    Stopping by from SITS. :)

    • Jen
      March 4, 2010 | 10:42 am

      I figure it’s because Jerry seinfeld is behind it. but yes they are big celebrities! I can’t wait to see more tonight!

  5. Mary
    March 4, 2010 | 10:48 am

    I can’t wait to see this show. Your post is so true and funny.

  6. Heidi
    March 4, 2010 | 12:53 pm

    We caught the first episode on Sunday and I was highly amused. I love to know that other people fight about random stuff. The stuffed dog and the stripper pole were classic. I can’t wait to see what some of the other arguments are! Kind of makes my irritation over the fact that my hubby sets something on the counter over the dishwasher instead of putting in IN the dishwasher lame-o.

  7. Yankee Girl
    March 4, 2010 | 12:54 pm

    I haven’t seen it yet but it’s on my DVR. It is so funny what some people will say when they are in the middle of a fight. When my husband and I are fighting, I always yell “YOU’RE LUCKY I LOVE YOU!” It usually works on shutting him up. But then he makes ninja noises and we start laughing so the argument is over.

    • Jen
      March 4, 2010 | 1:04 pm

      hahahha The Captain knows how to make me laugh when we are in fights too. Sometimes I’m really serious and it’s not funny though..lol “your lucky I love you” is funny..maybe I should use that!

  8. The Drama Mama
    March 4, 2010 | 12:54 pm

    This sounds like a great show! The second marriage lingo you posted is EXACTLY something my husband does–”at least I come home every night and I don’t go out to bars or nothing!” Haha. THanks for the giggle!! If you are in the need of a confessional, hope on over and leave your guilt at my doorstep with my latest post

  9. The Drama Mama
    March 4, 2010 | 12:55 pm

    PS. I came over from SITS.

  10. Jamie
    March 4, 2010 | 1:24 pm

    I too saw the previews and could not decide if I wanted to watch it. However, we did and we were laughing so hard my sides hurt at the end. The guy with the dog was creapy!! If your wife isnt going to use it, why have a stripper pole? LOL

    I can think of a couple things hubby and I could go on there with. Hope you have a wonderful weekend.

  11. Life with Kaishon
    March 4, 2010 | 1:46 pm

    This sounds SUPER funny! I am going to try to watch it tonight. As long as it doesn’t interfere with those real housewives : ) Oh. My. Gosh. I love the craziness that they are : )

  12. carma
    March 4, 2010 | 2:10 pm

    I was tempted to watch this tonight – and now after this glowing review – I just need to remember to turn on the TV at that time – not so good at remembering to do that :D

  13. Jessica @ Acting Adult
    March 4, 2010 | 2:16 pm

    I really liked this show when I saw it on Sunday! I think it’s great to show how stupid some arguments can be – and how you just have to take everything with a grain of salt.

  14. Amber
    March 4, 2010 | 2:25 pm

    I may have to check out the show. The previews made it look stupid.

    Stopping by from SITS.

  15. Sarah Ruth
    March 4, 2010 | 2:47 pm

    OK, Now I really want to watch it!!!

  16. Michelle
    March 4, 2010 | 2:47 pm

    I definitely want to watch that. It sounds hysterical!

  17. Linda
    March 4, 2010 | 3:42 pm

    I soooo needed a marriage ref. last night. Any volunteers?

    • Jen
      March 4, 2010 | 5:42 pm

      Oh I’d love to be the marriage ref! Lay it on me ;)

  18. Stephanie
    March 4, 2010 | 5:39 pm

    How haven’t I heard of this! I’m going to have to check it out it sounds like it will be funny!

    Hey stopping in from SITS

  19. Andrew
    March 4, 2010 | 7:22 pm

    I’d be willing to bet that when you saw the clip of the guy stuffing his dog a part of you considered it for Tink.

    • Jen
      March 4, 2010 | 8:41 pm

      I won’t lie…maybe for a second ;)

  20. Babes about Town
    March 4, 2010 | 7:48 pm

    This sounds great, I hope they bring it to the UK at some point. I’m definitely guilty of ‘kitchen sinking’…it’s funny how petty you can be when in the thick of an argument with your spouse.

    Enjoying your blog, first time over so pleased to meet you :-)

    • Jen
      March 4, 2010 | 8:42 pm

      Thank you so much for visiting!! :) I definitely use the “kitchen sink” too! lol

  21. Tillie
    March 5, 2010 | 11:34 pm

    Loved the show too! I am so bad about “kitchen sinking” it too!! I totally want a stripper pole! LOL

  22. Plus Size Barbie
    March 6, 2010 | 1:41 am

    Love the blog so now I’m following! I want to watch that show too! It looks really funny and I love Jerry Seinfeld.

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