Comments on: The Decision To Do Nothing http://afterthealter.com/the-decision-to-do-nothing/ My Life as a Mrs. Wed, 23 May 2012 18:02:34 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Busted Kate http://afterthealter.com/the-decision-to-do-nothing/comment-page-1/#comment-5765 Busted Kate Wed, 24 Mar 2010 22:35:01 +0000 http://afterthealter.com/?p=3250#comment-5765 What a cool doc! Jen, my dear friend, it looks like you have an awesome game plan. If this curse works, I might be having to come up for a visit to see this guy... Can't wait to be celebrating your BFP :-) What a cool doc!

Jen, my dear friend, it looks like you have an awesome game plan. If this curse works, I might be having to come up for a visit to see this guy… Can’t wait to be celebrating your BFP :-)

]]> By: Tillie http://afterthealter.com/the-decision-to-do-nothing/comment-page-1/#comment-5689 Tillie Tue, 23 Mar 2010 18:03:59 +0000 http://afterthealter.com/?p=3250#comment-5689 sounds like you have a fabulous new doctor. I think that you have a great plan to just wait. It will happen for you guys...the timing will be perfect soon and you will have a beautiful baby. Just be patient (I know..I know I have a hard time with that myself)...it'll happen. sounds like you have a fabulous new doctor. I think that you have a great plan to just wait. It will happen for you guys…the timing will be perfect soon and you will have a beautiful baby. Just be patient (I know..I know I have a hard time with that myself)…it’ll happen.

]]> By: Niki http://afterthealter.com/the-decision-to-do-nothing/comment-page-1/#comment-5461 Niki Fri, 19 Mar 2010 22:28:31 +0000 http://afterthealter.com/?p=3250#comment-5461 He does sound like a great doc and I would love to have him "curse" me. Not being rushed is super important. I have an OB who is awesome and listens to all my concerns and doesn't rush. I wish I could say the same for her staff. Anyway, my RE is the same way. Calm, attentive and positive. Our time will come. Ready or not. He does sound like a great doc and I would love to have him “curse” me. Not being rushed is super important. I have an OB who is awesome and listens to all my concerns and doesn’t rush. I wish I could say the same for her staff. Anyway, my RE is the same way. Calm, attentive and positive.

Our time will come. Ready or not.

]]> By: Paisley http://afterthealter.com/the-decision-to-do-nothing/comment-page-1/#comment-5456 Paisley Fri, 19 Mar 2010 20:54:29 +0000 http://afterthealter.com/?p=3250#comment-5456 Sounds like you have a fabulous doctor! Good decision to wait and keep trying naturally. :) Sounds like you have a fabulous doctor! Good decision to wait and keep trying naturally. :)

]]> By: MayBbaby21 http://afterthealter.com/the-decision-to-do-nothing/comment-page-1/#comment-5450 MayBbaby21 Fri, 19 Mar 2010 18:46:09 +0000 http://afterthealter.com/?p=3250#comment-5450 Your doctor sounds a lot like mine--very supportive. I haven't had a miscarriage, but I have been trying for 8 months, so I can share your frustration. Good luck! It will happen! Your doctor sounds a lot like mine–very supportive. I haven’t had a miscarriage, but I have been trying for 8 months, so I can share your frustration.
Good luck! It will happen!

]]> By: Megan http://afterthealter.com/the-decision-to-do-nothing/comment-page-1/#comment-5448 Megan Fri, 19 Mar 2010 18:28:00 +0000 http://afterthealter.com/?p=3250#comment-5448 Sounds like you have an amazing doctor, who really cares! You have a great attitude, that really helps a lot of people who are in the same situation as you. Hang in there and stay positive! Just remember, practice makes perfect! ;) Sounds like you have an amazing doctor, who really cares! You have a great attitude, that really helps a lot of people who are in the same situation as you. Hang in there and stay positive! Just remember, practice makes perfect! ;)

]]> By: Mads Mom http://afterthealter.com/the-decision-to-do-nothing/comment-page-1/#comment-5447 Mads Mom Fri, 19 Mar 2010 18:12:23 +0000 http://afterthealter.com/?p=3250#comment-5447 Good luck. I too had the same doctor as your first that just patted me on the hand. I did find that I had fertility issues but they have resolved and I have a 22 month old and (hush, just found out I'm PG again!) A friend of mine had multiple miscarriages. When I heard that she was pregnant again (only a week or two really) I told her to ask for progesterone to help sustain the pregnancy. It took 2 new doctors to get the prescription but she now has an adorable little boy. Good luck! And I love your attitude! Good luck. I too had the same doctor as your first that just patted me on the hand. I did find that I had fertility issues but they have resolved and I have a 22 month old and (hush, just found out I’m PG again!)
A friend of mine had multiple miscarriages. When I heard that she was pregnant again (only a week or two really) I told her to ask for progesterone to help sustain the pregnancy. It took 2 new doctors to get the prescription but she now has an adorable little boy.

Good luck! And I love your attitude!

]]> By: FutureMama http://afterthealter.com/the-decision-to-do-nothing/comment-page-1/#comment-5442 FutureMama Fri, 19 Mar 2010 16:08:07 +0000 http://afterthealter.com/?p=3250#comment-5442 Aww, what a great doctor! For real! Sounds like he helped boost your confidence a little and like he's really nice! I've liked all of my women OBs but I'm starting to think men are even cooler, lol! Good luck girlie!! Crossing my fingers and praying for you! :) Aww, what a great doctor! For real! Sounds like he helped boost your confidence a little and like he’s really nice! I’ve liked all of my women OBs but I’m starting to think men are even cooler, lol!

Good luck girlie!! Crossing my fingers and praying for you! :)

]]> By: Meghann http://afterthealter.com/the-decision-to-do-nothing/comment-page-1/#comment-5440 Meghann Fri, 19 Mar 2010 15:26:44 +0000 http://afterthealter.com/?p=3250#comment-5440 Your post just made my day. After a night of crying to my husband "why isn't this happening for us!?!?!" this truly lifted my spirits. I hope your doctor knows his advice has helped bring hope to many others! Your post just made my day. After a night of crying to my husband “why isn’t this happening for us!?!?!” this truly lifted my spirits. I hope your doctor knows his advice has helped bring hope to many others!

]]> By: Kt http://afterthealter.com/the-decision-to-do-nothing/comment-page-1/#comment-5438 Kt Fri, 19 Mar 2010 13:57:15 +0000 http://afterthealter.com/?p=3250#comment-5438 I have a friend who has been trying for a few months, and she is already worried something is wrong, and is incredibly frustrated because they aren't pregnant yet. It reminds me a lot of what you're describing. I think it's one of those decisions that once you say, I'm ready for this in my life, you want it to happen immediately. It's one of the few decisions in our life that although mentally and emotionally we're prepared, when our body is ready is totally out of our hands. But in a way, that's freeing, because you can just take it off of your shoulders and try to enjoy this time of trying until you get that BFP. By the way, your dr. patience sounds awesome! I have a friend who has been trying for a few months, and she is already worried something is wrong, and is incredibly frustrated because they aren’t pregnant yet. It reminds me a lot of what you’re describing. I think it’s one of those decisions that once you say, I’m ready for this in my life, you want it to happen immediately. It’s one of the few decisions in our life that although mentally and emotionally we’re prepared, when our body is ready is totally out of our hands. But in a way, that’s freeing, because you can just take it off of your shoulders and try to enjoy this time of trying until you get that BFP.

By the way, your dr. patience sounds awesome!

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