Comments on: Sucker Punch to the Gut http://afterthealter.com/sucker-punch-to-the-gut/ My Life as a Mrs. Sat, 04 Feb 2012 14:42:18 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Adeana http://afterthealter.com/sucker-punch-to-the-gut/comment-page-1/#comment-2011 Adeana Wed, 27 Jan 2010 21:11:52 +0000 http://afterthealter.com/?p=2844#comment-2011 well, let me tell you that i understand your pain. i was sooooo naive before i had my kids and after all my drama, i'm surprised any of them made it outta there alive! but nonetheless, it is a difficult thing to deal with, but in time, you will be better. well, let me tell you that i understand your pain. i was sooooo naive before i had my kids and after all my drama, i’m surprised any of them made it outta there alive! but nonetheless, it is a difficult thing to deal with, but in time, you will be better.

]]> By: Type A Nightmare http://afterthealter.com/sucker-punch-to-the-gut/comment-page-1/#comment-1972 Type A Nightmare Mon, 25 Jan 2010 22:58:20 +0000 http://afterthealter.com/?p=2844#comment-1972 I'm so sorry. I've never had a miscarriage, but I often think... had I gotten pregnant immediately, I would be having a baby this month. It's devastating. And I am so much like you with the Christmas baby thing. My stepdaughter was born 4 days before Christmas, so I surely don't want a December baby, but it's getting to the point that I'll take a baby any day of any month... just hopefully sooner than later. I’m so sorry. I’ve never had a miscarriage, but I often think… had I gotten pregnant immediately, I would be having a baby this month. It’s devastating. And I am so much like you with the Christmas baby thing. My stepdaughter was born 4 days before Christmas, so I surely don’t want a December baby, but it’s getting to the point that I’ll take a baby any day of any month… just hopefully sooner than later.

]]> By: Jen http://afterthealter.com/sucker-punch-to-the-gut/comment-page-1/#comment-1971 Jen Mon, 25 Jan 2010 22:49:38 +0000 http://afterthealter.com/?p=2844#comment-1971 Thank you for your kind words. I hope your TTC journey is an easy one! I'm working on the positive part! :) I think I"m getting the hang of it though! Thank you for your kind words. I hope your TTC journey is an easy one! I’m working on the positive part! :) I think I”m getting the hang of it though!

]]> By: Jen http://afterthealter.com/sucker-punch-to-the-gut/comment-page-1/#comment-1970 Jen Mon, 25 Jan 2010 22:48:58 +0000 http://afterthealter.com/?p=2844#comment-1970 Like you said..It's hard to understand unless you've been there...but I guess everyone has their pesonal struggles and this one is mine...thanks for the hugs! Like you said..It’s hard to understand unless you’ve been there…but I guess everyone has their pesonal struggles and this one is mine…thanks for the hugs!

]]> By: Jen http://afterthealter.com/sucker-punch-to-the-gut/comment-page-1/#comment-1969 Jen Mon, 25 Jan 2010 22:48:05 +0000 http://afterthealter.com/?p=2844#comment-1969 I think I'll be alright..just was a reminder. I am pretty good at keeping my mind occupied on other things. My "no christmas baby" thought has gone right out the window! I think I’ll be alright..just was a reminder. I am pretty good at keeping my mind occupied on other things. My “no christmas baby” thought has gone right out the window!

]]> By: POM http://afterthealter.com/sucker-punch-to-the-gut/comment-page-1/#comment-1968 POM Mon, 25 Jan 2010 22:06:37 +0000 http://afterthealter.com/?p=2844#comment-1968 Jen-I'm so sorry for your struggles. I can kinda relate as I'm ttc, but haven't been trough the pain and tragedy of loss...so I can only sympathize. I know how it feels to be up against the deadline and to feel the eagerness, followed by disappointment and frustration. It will happen for you but better to take your mind off of it for a bit, like you're doing with your mom. Give yourself a break and stay positive! I'm here if you need to talk. Kelly Jen-I’m so sorry for your struggles. I can kinda relate as I’m ttc, but haven’t been trough the pain and tragedy of loss…so I can only sympathize. I know how it feels to be up against the deadline and to feel the eagerness, followed by disappointment and frustration.
It will happen for you but better to take your mind off of it for a bit, like you’re doing with your mom. Give yourself a break and stay positive!
I’m here if you need to talk.
Kelly

]]> By: Young Wife http://afterthealter.com/sucker-punch-to-the-gut/comment-page-1/#comment-1967 Young Wife Mon, 25 Jan 2010 21:27:33 +0000 http://afterthealter.com/?p=2844#comment-1967 I'm so sorry for your loss, and I hope you're able to conceive soon. HUGS. I’m so sorry for your loss, and I hope you’re able to conceive soon. HUGS.

]]> By: Jeannie http://afterthealter.com/sucker-punch-to-the-gut/comment-page-1/#comment-1966 Jeannie Mon, 25 Jan 2010 20:17:27 +0000 http://afterthealter.com/?p=2844#comment-1966 I know from experience that days like this suck. They hurt more than anyone who has never "been there, done that" will understand. I know that nothing I can say will make it better, but I just wanted to offer up bug hugs. I know from experience that days like this suck. They hurt more than anyone who has never “been there, done that” will understand. I know that nothing I can say will make it better, but I just wanted to offer up bug hugs.

]]> By: Jin http://afterthealter.com/sucker-punch-to-the-gut/comment-page-1/#comment-1965 Jin Mon, 25 Jan 2010 20:13:01 +0000 http://afterthealter.com/?p=2844#comment-1965 Days like this suck something awful. Hopefully you'll just have to deal with this one day and not day after day after day. I know some women who light a candle for their angel babies on the day they would've been born, and that helps them. I've never had a miscarriage so I dont know the pain, but TTC for this long, we still get the bad days too. And I think we all started with a "no christmas baby" thought, but quickly changed that as each cycle goes by. Days like this suck something awful. Hopefully you’ll just have to deal with this one day and not day after day after day. I know some women who light a candle for their angel babies on the day they would’ve been born, and that helps them. I’ve never had a miscarriage so I dont know the pain, but TTC for this long, we still get the bad days too.

And I think we all started with a “no christmas baby” thought, but quickly changed that as each cycle goes by.

]]> By: Jen http://afterthealter.com/sucker-punch-to-the-gut/comment-page-1/#comment-1962 Jen Mon, 25 Jan 2010 18:33:59 +0000 http://afterthealter.com/?p=2844#comment-1962 I am loving the virtual hugs. Thank you so much! I am loving the virtual hugs. Thank you so much!

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